I bought two online, because of glowing reviews. In my case, the bra constricted my ribs painfully and didn't do a damn thing to contain the actual breasts.

I found a bra called "maia" at REI that does well for me.

Also, Title Nine carries a lot of larger sizes and rates their support system in terms of barbells...the more barbells, the higher the support level.

Anyhoo....me me me, bla bla bla. I'm glad YOU found something that works and that you're getting to the gym :)